Tired of the usual scene? Discover meaningful connections and adventures. Join Big Gay Out: London's premier community for gay, bi, and queer men.


What is Big Gay Out?

We are a thriving community for Gay, Bi, and Queer men in London.
If you are looking for genuine friendships, diverse experiences, and a supportive network beyond the clubbing scene, you have found your home.


What You Get With Your Membership:

Curated Events: From climbing to theatre, hiking to brunches. Explore London with like-minded men.

Real Connections: Meet new friends and build lasting bonds in a welcoming environment.

Safe & Inclusive Space: Our community thrives on kindness, respect, and shared values.

Exclusive Community Portal: Access NAS.io for event bookings, member chat, and resources.

Direct Support: Connect with hosts Owain and Matty who personally run events.

Your Membership Options:

Monthly Membership: 8.95 pounds/month. Flexibility to try us out.

6-Month Pack: 44.75 pounds. Save money compared to monthly.

Annual Membership: 89 pounds/year. Our best value option (2 months free!)

Our Values: The Heart of Our Community

At Big Gay Out, we create a space where everyone thrives. Our core values include kindness, respect, inclusivity for all identities, authenticity, and a spirit of adventure. Our community manifesto outlines these fully. You will agree to follow these values upon joining, ensuring a positive environment for all.

Your Journey with Big Gay Out: Simple Steps to Connection

Join Us: Select your membership plan here on NAS.io.

Welcome Aboard! Receive an instant welcome email with everything you need.

Explore the Portal: Your NAS.io members' hub for events, the member feed, and managing your membership.

Connect on WhatsApp: Your welcome email guides you to our WhatsApp community for announcements and questions. You control your notifications.

Experience & Connect: Turn up to events, meet amazing people, and start building meaningful friendships.

Member Stories:

“I joined BGO early on, and have had the joy seeing this idea to provide our community with an inclusive, fun and social space into the warm-hearted bright community it is today. I’ve met so many people who are now friends, and tried things I before had never even considered. London can be a lonely place, but BGO makes it feel like a home.”
– Detmer

“I came to BGO at a time when I felt stuck between who I was and who I wanted to be. What I found was more than just a social group; it’s a chosen family I’ve yearned for, one that has made space for me to grow, heal and truly belong. From unforgettable socials to honest conversations during my lowest points, BGO has given me community, laughter and genuine friendships. It’s one of the biggest reasons I’m moving back to London, because this kind of connection is rare, and it’s real.”
– Mithun

“Before BGO, I genuinely struggled to find real friendships outside of going out and partying. I was in a pretty bad place mentally and didn’t realise how isolated I’d become. Joining BGO changed that — I’ve met some of the kindest people, and it’s had a massive impact on my mental health and just the overall quality of my life. It’s been such a game-changer.”
– Omar

Ready to discover a new way to connect?
JOIN BIG GAY OUT NOW

Owain Gwynfryn

Big Gay Out!