It’s important that you understand who you are and what you like. When you are young, people will give you a list of things you can and can’t do. As you get older, you will know better about what you need and what you don’t. The thing is, most people refuse to embrace themselves because they believe that to think more of themselves is selfish. They forget one thing, by the way. They have forgotten themselves. I wouldn’t debate on this subject because different people will have different ideas about what they want.